:: My 2004 ::

ever since life starts roaming ard on this land, lots and lots of problems grow together with it. Some problems dat are minor to us could be the poison to another. each human are catering to solve only to certain types of problem in life. Depending on the situation we are exposed to, only those who can solve it better will out shine the rest. Or even to extreme cases, survive while the rest perish. our life is revolved between ourselves and our surroundings. for ourselves, we r often bothered by the choices to make everyday. for others, it depends in how we treat others and others to us.

in this current society we live in today, we are exposed to so many options in life. often we r easily tempted, made the wrong choice and regret later. to view life from a negative side, i always tell myself dat life is full of regret becoz humans are always not content and happy with wat they have. we often only see things as wat we feel, while neglecting the thoughts of others or the hidden terms. example in singapore, cars are very expensive and hardly many below the age of 25 can own their own cars. for those who dun will always admire upon those who have cars. but but but...have u have thought of how much hard work dat person did to get the car, have u seen dat person worrying abt where to park the car, every month crying over the parking and petroleum charges, every weekend have to wash the car, a little scratch in the car is like a deep cut to the heart or how depressing the owner will get if the car had an accident. not dat i'm digging on the misfortunate of others, i have really seen all these things happened to my frenz b4. as for the gd side, cars indeed more convenient to a limited extend and catch the attention of ur friends better. However, the negative side outweighs the positive side many folds more. this is the main reason why i didnt go and take my driving test till today. in other words, i know dat i am not ready to handle all these problems by myself yet. this case is just a very typical example of humans dat only see the gd side of the things dat r yet to achieve and not long after they got wat they want, they just regret. no doubt dat we can pick up driving as a skill, but if we r not intending to get a car so soon, this skill will be forgotten by the time we get the car. skills dat we learnt are only useful when we know how to apply it and use it often. my opinion for such option in life is just spare more thoughts for it 1st before making ur choice, be aware of the strings attached to it and do not regret when u made up ur mind. this way, life will be happier. when we make investment, make sure than we are not paying to too many things at the same time and ended up losing everything. if best, make investment dat will benefit us on the long run(a gd bed and a gd sofa set), while avoid bottomless hole investment(eg: a car). for some of u may wonder how come a gd sofa set is a gd investment, u can ask those married man. As they are the best ppl to understand this when they got chased out of the room by the wivies.

next, among inter-personal relationships, the most common one is ppl always wants things to be done their way without sparing a thought for others. i believe all of us encountered this b4 to us and even from us to others. we always like to give comments to others but without providing reasons and useful solutions to them. comments without solution may lead to problems to the listener. i encountered someone (note dat i used someone instead of another word dat i always use) who always like to give comments to others but seldom will provide useful suggestions to them. His comments are "i dun like it", " not nice", "TOO long" etc. As soon as u ask why and then how, his reply will be i dont know and dat's not my problem. i feel dat if u are not sincere enough to help in the 1st place, then dont get urself involve at all. and pls do not misunderstood this with not able to help much or at all, sometimes it's the thought counts. to me, this person is just acting like a misbehave child and trying to catch some attention. so pls do not be such a person. if u wish to be cared by others, then u got to start with urself to others. Another example can be found happening everyday at MRT stations, i dun understand why ppl are so eager to enter the station even though they know they are not going to miss the train and they know that the seats are all taken. if everyone in this world are slightly more considerate to others, life will be happier.

Oops~! i guess i wrote long enough but it seems dat i still got so much to say. haha...if this mail is enough just to make an inconsiderate person to wake up his/her senses, i'll be very glad already. ha...actually, i'm not a 100% considerate person yet but i'm been working on it since many yrs back.

Dun sigh, it waste a second of ur life... :)


+ BL updated @ 4:09 AM

_________