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i wonder if it too late to comment at the 2 guys who been charged for making some racist posts in some forum and their blog... well, at least better than never ba... luckily for me, i dun haf the habit to make such offensive comments on others or any issues ba... if u know me long enough or ever take notice of me, u will know dat i dun like to say any vulgarities at all... due to a promise i made when i was in pri6... so if u ever hear offensive words from me, most of the time i should be joking with a thought on my target too. otherwise on something bad muz haf happened to me ba... usually when my sky are darken, i will hide myself in the shadows... waiting for light to shine again...

to me, 1 of the difference between maturity and immaturity is... when we give comment on something, we should also give recommendation, not for self but for the sake of the big picture... in this way, the receiving party will appreciate it too... something dat i dislike abt ppl is... we often make inconsiderate comments abt others, coz we feel like it... if the receiving party is a sensitive person, s/he will get hurt... well, if dat person is similiar, then a dispute is likely to occur... thru my life, i always see such comments from ppl...whether to be the 3rd party or victim... i used to get affected by such actions and slowly my heart turned cold... it's so easy for us to offend anyone. once again due to lack of understand, wrong usage of words and tone to the receiving party... a smoothing voice to us usually, may become a noise pollution to us too... from love to hate... this is 1 of the beauty of humans... we r all cut out to think differently, from time to time... nothing is definite in life except changes...

if u r a person who easily say offensive things to others... let's use statistic to see the big picture... if we spur out offensive comments to 1 person everyday in a yr... we could have made 365 enemies or created 365 unhappy faces... similiarly, we haf foul our heart 365 times... likewise, if we create a happy smile once per day... we would have created 365 happy faces in a yr and we would have smile for 365 times... able to be understanding is never basic nature of humans... it's a process that each of us need to be mindful of... revenge does taste sweet and feels good, but it acts like a poison to intoxicate our hearts, degrading our personality...

well, watever how each of us want to choose our path to be... it's our own freedom with restriction by local laws and regulations... the option is open... to end off, lemme give a reminder... wat goes round, comes around... :)

+ BL updated @ 6:53 AM

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