:: Thoughts of the day ::

"Limits are imposed by those who say no."
"Other ppl can block our path all they want, but they can never always be there to stop us from moving on forever."
"there is no right or wrong in the choices we make in life, there is only the one dat we believe in for good, better or best then."

before i start sharing my thoughts, lemme share a true experiment. have u ever catch a flea and keep it inside a clear jug? well if u did, u will be amazed by how high a flea can jump at first. then next, u might be laughing at the flea for jumping so high, dat everytime it will hit the lid of the jug. after 1hr, u will see the flea keep jumping and banging its head on the lid also. after 2 hrs, the flea will keep jumping and knocking its head on the lid. after 3-4+hr later, the flea will not stop jumping but this time, it will stop at abt an inch under the lid. if u remove the lid, it will take the flea some time for it to incease its jumping height and finally out of the jug.

from this story, we can see dat the flea is highly determined to jump out of the jug. so let us take the flea as a role model in life and let us get out of any tough situation we are placed in life. in some tough situations, we cant just escape from it so soon, as many would normally do, and all we need is to spend some time in it. so we need to wait till the problem is over, then we can get out of it. like the flea, we should never stop trying to get out of the jug, rather than to give up and wait at the bottom till our last breath. we should be also aware of the pain/loss we could receive/make and avoid it as much as possible.

humans are negative beings by default, unless u r a factory defect :P. u can only find default positive beings in mental hospitals. not only dat, very often we would obstruct the developement of others by giving them negative thoughts. how well we can rinse ourselves from all such negatives thoughts, be it from self or others, it is up to our own management and methods we employ. u would be fortunate, if there is/are ppl to support u.

in life, all humans will depend on something as their mental support. religion, beliefs, culture, people, objects, self, money, goals, thoughts, luck and other imaginary things, all these are very popular mental support for our human spirit. they r like food for our soul to grow, be strong and healthy. regardless of which one/s u choose as to be ur mental support, u have to strongly believe dat it can bring u happiness first. for me, i chose to believe dat people r my mental support, dat is why i always like to make my frenz to be happy and for those dat i value more to be happier :). so the best way to knowledge me as ur fren is to stay happy with me and share ur thoughts with me. if u also choose people as ur mental support, u got to be cautious abt the choice u make 1st before u make a heavy investment. we often we see ppl getting cheated, betrayed etc, becoz we neglect the feelings of the person/s in the 1st place. when we place ur trust on our ppl, did it reach their heart? if it did not, then u will surely get negative results in the end. when we r get intentionally cheated by ppl we trust, we are responsible to take most of the faults, instead of crying out to gain pity from others. it is becoz we made the choice in the 1st place and not them. they can induce or seduce urs, but the choice still ours to make. in the end, it is only their losses for not appreciating us.


+ BL updated @ 4:27 AM

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