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Friday, October 15, 2010
:: Thoughts of the day... ::

"The best parent is the 1 who cant love their children anymore...
The best child is the 1 who cant love their parents anymore..."

I got 1st part of this thought from my mum... she still misses my grandma alot even though my grandmother has passed on 5years ago... to my mum, my grandma is the best mother in the world... while to me, my grandma is the best in world also... she is my number idol when it comes to principles of life... she taught me alot & i learnt alot from her too...

 I also felt it from my niece and nephew who lost their mum 4yrs back... to them, my sister is the best mother in the world... but if my sister is still alive today, she might be nagging at them everyday... so both of them might not feel the value of this statement at all...

As for the 2nd part of this thought... i got it from my father's mum, my paternal grandma... she's 1 of the fiercest woman i ever came across in my life... canning sessions by her once every few days during my childhood is a normal routine for me...

The most softest side of her came to my mind was when she knew that his only daughter has passed away... she stayed in her room and cried alone for 1 whole week... ever since then until the day she passed away in 18 Aug 2000, she would still mentioned her memories abt my auntie, her only daughter...

According to my uncle and dad, my grandma beats up my auntie often when my auntie is young... to my grandma, she always put boys over girls like most traditional chinese families... yet she suffered so much over the dead of her daughter...

it does hurt my heart when i always blamed her for beating me up when i was young... maybe that is her way of loving me... she wants me to be a useful person in life... yet i was so wrong about her...


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